I missed posting yesterday due to spending a couple days in the mountains, enjoying some piece and quiet (so much quiet) in a friend's cabin near Fairplay. "Cabin" is not a very accurate term here, since the house has a two-car garage, two floors, five bedrooms, a modern kitchen, wifi, and more. It was very nice.
But Kathleen and I agreed after this trip that we are not interested in investing half a million bucks into a second home in the mountains, or anywhere else, for that matter.
Her preference would be to rent places for however long we might wish to stay (Hawaii, Vegas, California, etc.), figuring that half a million can cover quite a few rentals for many, many nights, and we would not have that "anchor" that owning one nice mountain home involves.
Some folks obviously enjoy the outdoors more than I do, and some are quite satisfied with a "get away" where there are few neighbors, and where it takes over 90 minutes just to drive there over two-lane roads (finishing with ten miles of dirt and gravel).
I find myself more and more appreciating all the standards and equipment we have developed for our Highlands Ranch home over the years, from how to access the Internet to placement of furniture and screens, to our own coffee maker with a fancy burr grinder for the beans.
Over the past few weeks Kathleen and I have replaced our desktop computers with Dell XPS boxes that are very fast and include loads of memory, and this somewhat routine upgrade -- our "old" desktops were 4-5 years old, which made them dinosaurs -- was enough to cause anxiety and pain.
After 14 years in this home, we have replaced the heating and cooling along with most of the major appliances. Every change was a pain and more will be coming.
I wish I could call someone at Dell and order a "souped up" and brand new home like we can computers, but here's the bottom line: The older we get, the more we become uncomfortable with the inevitable changes our material "stuff" prompts, often at inopportune times.
Kathleen has a Post-It note near her desk that says, "Do I Need It? Use It? Love It?"
This advice from a decluttering expert makes a lot of sense, though its simplicity masks all sorts of difficult decisions and time-consuming sorting.
Perhaps I will set aside some time once this semester wraps to apply the Marie Kondo advice on that Post-It and clear out some clothes that have hung unused in my closet for years.
On the other hand, inertia is one of the most powerful forces in the universe.